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Monkeybusiness
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That’s a terrible shock, how very sad for you (and obviously his other friends and family).Hi thanks doing OK it's just over a week still in shock but thanks again
As you rightly say it is so important to talk things through with someone. I know that there are many people who don’t feel able to start that sort of conversation with anyone and subsequently feel alone in their personal predicament.
I’m 46 and have to date lost one old close mate to suicide, one to cancer and one to a heart attack (all were my age). It is pretty horrible odds when you look at it like that!
If you or anyone ever need someone to talk to there are always open ‘ears’ on here, either on the open forum or by DM. It is an amazingly friendly and helpful group of people and it might be that talking to someone unknown whilst remaining invisible behind a screen is enough to allow a person the opportunity to open up about their own predicament - a massively brave thing to do.
There’s plenty of weirdos accepted for who they are on here already so nobody should feel uncomfortable posting - hiding in plain sight are a machine-collecting-paint-fetishist, a crazy Italian chef with an unhealthy love of cranes, a six-toed LinkedIn-warrior-VOSA-encyclopaedia, at least one tax evasion expert, a bloke who can fix any known machine remotely just from (often poor) descriptions of the symptoms, and a truck-driving-prostitute-murderer. I can’t really think of much that wouldn’t be openly discussed here without judgement - I’d implore anyone to use this place as a ‘vent’ whenever necessary! Xx

