I'm reliably informed this morning, that all my woes started on this day 20 years ago
took Pam out on our first (blind) date ..... an' she didn't draw breath all evening !!

.... some might say a 'wiser' man'd taken that as
a sign of things to come

I blame Kevin Philips, her work colleague, and mutual friend, whom she tasked with the 'project' of
finding her a suitable fella to accompany her to the BWW crimbo bash in '99, as she was fed up of going on her own, after her divorce some time before!!
I had ABSOLUTELY no idea who she was, or what she was like ... other than Kev's assurances she was "
alright " ... lyin' bar steward

I really have no idea WTF the last twenty years have vanished to

but we've made a pretty decent team, along the way .... two strong willed, very independent people, may not have been the best of combinations at times, but between us, there ain't much we can't cope with or handle.
Can't imagine what she went through in 2010, having not long moved here, when I got whisked into hospital, middle of the night, on a blues and two,s ride, body shutting down, with a distinctly serious possibility of not coming back !!!
she coped, nursed me back from, what was at the time, the edge of an abyss and has taken on the weekly responsibility for keeping me alive and 'healthy', ever since.

Women uh

...... WTF'd we be without 'em